Sex and Sexuality

You might as well all know, I'm bisexual. I do not judge by gender, if I like the person, I like them. I have had crushes on females before, but unfortunately my affections were often not returned, which is why I've always dated men. Growing up in East Texas with a conservative southern baptist family is contradictory to my sexuality. Hell, I've been told that dating someone of a different race was explicably outlawed in the bible(there were no white people in the bible. It's the middle east), think of the backlash i would have received if I came out publicly before now. But here it is, I am bisexual. I have known for years, so it's definitely not a phase. I first came out this year, we were discussing sexuality in my anthropology class, and thats when i realized that there was really nothing wrong with who I am. I called my boyfriend at the time, and asked him if he'd ever date a girl who was bi, and he answered yes and then asked if there was something I needed to share with him. And I did. I have since informed 99% of my family, but its who I am, and who I will always be. There is nothing wrong with liking your own gender (I could go into a whole scientific tangent about the biology of that, but I'll spare you this time)

Now time for the fun part of todays post: SEX, the word that everyone cringes at, and pre-teens laugh about to their friends. Porn is literally the largest industry in the world. Sex and sexuality is shoved in our faces in every day life, so I think it's about time that people stop thinking its taboo. If you're alive (which I know you are if you're reading this) it's because your parents had sex, or you're a test tube baby, and then they still probably had sex anyways. In todays society it's okay for guys to have sex but not for girls? Then there's the wait until marriage thinking, and that branches off into a whole new tree of problems. I was in Girls of Grace, I went through the ceremony and got my ring and all that good stuff, but in retrospect I think it's kinda dumb. If the sex is bad, chances are your marriage is going to suck too. Intimacy is a GIANT part of marriage, and if you can't work that out, then there's going to be a whole bunch of existential questions about how great your marriage is. I'm not trying to be cynical( or give my older readers a heart attack) but this is pure science! Ladies, if they tell you that a guy isn't going to want you because you're "tainted" then well they're a shitty guy. You aren't tainted. you're not a perishable good, you're a fucking human being. My last two boyfriends weren't virgins, and guess what? I didn't care, I didn't see them as whores or sleazy, because it's simply human nature. As you get older the chances of you finding a "pure" man or woman are going to get slimmer and slimmer, wanna know why? because it's a social stigma put upon children that sex means you're a bad person, or that you're going to Hell. If you want to go out and get some coitus, then go! You go get some! JUST DONT BE STUPID. Like seriously, use your 7th grade sex-ed skills and be prepared. You know what I'm talking about.

So, My lovely readers, I'm sorry for any heart attacks or aneurisms caused by this post, and if you decide to stop reading my blog, then be my guest. I simply post my views on life (and biological truth) but whatevs.
uplifting quote: "Heaven called, and they said they're missing an angel. luckily I found it"